The purpose of a fishtrap is to catch fish, and when the fish are caught, the trap is forgotten.
The purpose of a rabbit snare is to catch rabbits. When the rabbits are caught, the snare is forgotten.
The purpose of words is to convey ideas. When the ideas are grasped, the words are forgotten.
"Where can I find a man who has forgotten words? He is the one I would like to talk to."
~ Chuang Tsu
Or "Where can I find a woman who has forgotten words? She is the one I would like to talk to."